{"id":43049,"date":"2025-02-03T12:00:55","date_gmt":"2025-02-03T11:00:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/magazine\/?p=43049"},"modified":"2025-03-21T15:28:10","modified_gmt":"2025-03-21T14:28:10","slug":"menopause-101-lets-get-down-to-basics","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/magazine\/menopause-101-lets-get-down-to-basics\/","title":{"rendered":"Menopause 101 \u2014 Let\u2019s Get Down to Basics"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Your menopause doula, reporting for service! After sharing much of my menopause journey in the last article, it\u2019s time to turn the spotlight to YOU. This article is all about getting the basics straight. Together, we\u2019ll get on the same page about what menopause really means, the unique experiences that come with it, and why tracking your periods should be at the top of your to-do list\u2026starting now.<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2><strong><br \/>\n<\/strong><em><b>What is menopause?<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Surprisingly, menopause itself is just one day in a person\u2019s life. It\u2019s the day when someone has gone a full year without having a period. Think of it as an anniversary! Everything before that day is called premenopause, and everything after it is postmenopause.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The years leading up to menopause\u2014when periods stop and fertility ends\u2014are marked by big hormonal shifts, especially in estrogen and progesterone. This phase, known as perimenopause, usually starts about 4\u20136 years before your final period. On average, most European women hit menopause (again, that one-year mark after the last period) around age 51. This means perimenopause often starts around 44\u201345. Of course, these are just averages. Some people start perimenopause 10 years earlier, and for others, it\u2019s only 2 years before menopause.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Before perimenopause, estrogen and progesterone keep a relatively steady balance. But during this transition, they start to spike and dip wildly. If this all sounds familiar, it should! The hormonal rollercoaster of perimenopause is actually pretty similar to what happens in our teenage years\u2014that is why some people call it a \u201csecond adolescence.\u201d This is what causes those well-known signs like hot flushes, mood swings, trouble sleeping, and irregular bleeding. And no, this doesn\u2019t stop the day you hit menopause. Hormones take time to stabilize, usually 1\u20132 years afterward, as your body adjusts to a new, lower level. While the ovaries stop producing large amounts of hormones, other glands (like your adrenal glands) pick up the slack and produce just enough for what your body needs.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43069 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-427x640.jpg\" alt=\"Vagina Period Illustration by Nadezhda Moryak\" width=\"427\" height=\"640\" data-wp-pid=\"42896\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-853x1280.jpg 853w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-666x999.jpg 666w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Vagina-Period-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-scaled.jpg 1920w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 427px) 100vw, 427px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><em><b>Natural vs. Non-Natural Menopause<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In all of this, I\u2019m referring to what\u2019s called \u201cnatural menopause.\u201d However, there are also \u201cnon-natural\u201d menopauses. These include premature ovarian insufficiency (POI) (like yours truly), medically induced menopause, and surgical menopause, which happens when the ovaries are removed. Menopause can also result from treatments for certain diseases, such as cancer.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">It\u2019s estimated that 1 in 100 women (though recent studies suggest it might be closer to 4 in 100) will experience POI. Sadly, we have very little data about the other types of non-natural menopause, even though we know the numbers are on the rise. Women experiencing non-natural menopause may face stronger and more debilitating symptoms, compounded by the mental and emotional load of navigating menopause outside the \u201ctypical\u201d age range and dealing with the sudden loss of fertility. This adds an extra layer of complexity to their journey, requiring even greater awareness, empathy, and tailored support.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><em><b>Let\u2019s clear something up&#8230;<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">People often refer to this whole process as \u201cmenopause,\u201d but that\u2019s not technically correct. It\u2019s better to call it the menopause transition, which includes perimenopause, menopause, and postmenopause. And let\u2019s be clear: this transition is normal\u2014it\u2019s not a disease. That\u2019s why I prefer to talk about \u201csigns\u201d or \u201cexperiences\u201d rather than \u201csymptoms,\u201d which makes it sound like something\u2019s wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Most of us know about the \u201cbig\u201d signs like hot flushes, but there are actually over 35 possible experiences during this time. Some of them are pretty unexpected, like dry eyes or dental issues. Please google \u201cmenopause symptom tracker\u201d, download one that you like and get familiar with it! My goal isn\u2019t to scare anyone or make menopause sound awful. Not all these things happen to everyone, and certainly not all at once. Every menopause journey is completely unique.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>Here\u2019s how it breaks down:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">About one-third of women experience no signs or very mild ones.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Another third have mild to moderate signs.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">The remaining third have more severe experiences, and for 5\u201310% of them, these can seriously impact their quality of life\u2014comparable to living with a chronic illness or disability.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">This huge variation is why it\u2019s so hard to talk about menopause in a one-size-fits-all way. It\u2019s a complex experience shaped by individual factors like your age, health, diet, the type of menopause you have (natural, induced, or premature), your cultural background, your job and even whether you\u2019ve faced racism. These things can either make menopause easier or much harder.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter wp-image-43066 size-medium\" src=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-640x427.jpg\" alt=\"Femme Heart Hand Illustration by Nadezhda Moryak\" width=\"640\" height=\"427\" data-wp-pid=\"42887\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-640x427.jpg 640w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-1280x853.jpg 1280w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-2048x1365.jpg 2048w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-720x480.jpg 720w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-286x192.jpg 286w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/02\/Femme-Heart-Hand-Illustration-by-Nadezhda-Moryak-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 640px) 100vw, 640px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><em><b>Is it menopause or just getting older?<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">That\u2019s a tricky question. Menopause symptoms overlap a lot with the natural aging process. But here\u2019s where gender and sexism come in. Women\u2019s bodies have been historically pathologized and treated as \u201cdefective.\u201d Even the language we use reflects this\u2014outdated terms like \u201covarian failure\u201d or \u201cvaginal atrophy\u201d (yes, really) make it sound like our bodies are broken. This is one reason I hesitate to present a long list of menopause \u201csymptoms\u201d as inevitable.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><strong>That said, I\u2019m sharing this info for two important reasons:<\/strong><\/p>\n<ol>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Awareness is power. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Many women have no idea what to expect during perimenopause, which leaves them feeling confused, scared, and isolated. It\u2019s easy to think, \u201cWhat\u2019s wrong with me?\u201d instead of realizing, \u201cOh, this is just a normal part of the process.\u201d<\/span><\/li>\n<li><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"> Doctors aren\u2019t always helpful. <\/span><\/i><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In some places (like Germany), there\u2019s a real lack of knowledge about menopause in the medical community. Women are often misdiagnosed (with things like burnout or depression) or told there\u2019s nothing wrong and sent home to \u201cjust deal with it.\u201d This is a gender and political issue! The personal is political! So here\u2019s how you can advocate for yourself:<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Right now, perimenopause is \u201cdiagnosed\u201d (meaning recognised by doctors) based on self-reported signs and whether your age matches the typical range. That\u2019s why it\u2019s so important to:<\/span><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Learn about perimenopause so you know what to look out for.<\/span><\/li>\n<li><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\"><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Track your periods and \u201csymptoms\u201d\u2014what happens, when, how long it lasts, and how intense it is. There are plenty of apps and printable templates to help with this. Again, google \u201cmenopause symptom tracker\u201d and take your pick.<\/span><\/span><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">Tracking doesn\u2019t just help your doctor in case you need some medical support\u2014it helps you. Paying attention to your body builds a connection with it. The more we understand what\u2019s happening, the more empowered we feel. Even if you decide you do not need medical support, knowledge about your experience is key to navigating it well.<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h2><em><b>It\u2019s not all doom and gloom.<\/b><\/em><\/h2>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">I want women to feel strong and powerful coming out of this transition. Menopause isn\u2019t the beginning of the end\u2014it\u2019s a time to refocus on yourself. Those subtle changes your body is sending you? They\u2019re a signal that it\u2019s time to slow down, listen, and make adjustments that support your well-being.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400;\">In my next article, I\u2019ll share some tips to help you navigate this time with ease and confidence. Stay tuned!<\/span><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-medium wp-image-42887\" src=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-427x640.jpg\" alt=\"Jen Chan de Avila (Headshot)\" width=\"427\" height=\"640\" data-wp-pid=\"42887\" srcset=\"https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-427x640.jpg 427w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-853x1280.jpg 853w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-666x999.jpg 666w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/mag.amazingy.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2025\/01\/Jen-Chan-de-Avila-Headshot.jpg 1825w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 427px) 100vw, 427px\" \/><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<h6 style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.pexels.com\/@nadezhda-moryak\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener\"><em>Illustrations by Nadezhda Moryak on Pexels<\/em><\/a><\/h6>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Your menopause doula, reporting for service! 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