{"id":17826,"date":"2017-06-12T17:07:48","date_gmt":"2017-06-12T15:07:48","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/magazine\/?p=17826\/"},"modified":"2019-04-05T11:28:20","modified_gmt":"2019-04-05T09:28:20","slug":"waxing-101","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/magazine\/waxing-101\/","title":{"rendered":"Amazingy Guides: How To Survive A Bikini Wax"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong>Female body hair has always been and will probably always be a topic of heated discussion. Be it under the arms, on the legs or between them\u2014the debate continues, to keep, or not to keep the hair, and is it all or nothing? If it has to go, then how? AH!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h2>A short history many of you will recognise&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>Oh how I remember blushing like a tomato when I as a teenager and received a ladyshave (a special female razor) for my birthday. Thanks mom &amp; dad, for the hint&#8230;<br \/>\nAfter the ladyshave broke, I moved on to real razors and stuck with those for a long long time, occasionally causing a bloodbath because of a wrong movement in the shower. \u00a0Of course, I tried the microwave do-it-yourself wax but, boy, did that turn out to be one giant sticky painful mess\u2026and it didn\u2019t even work: half the hairs on my legs were still there smiling back at me. \u00a0I also tried my friends epilator machine, but oooh how painful! And then the ingrown hairs!<\/p>\n<p>So, then something came up that promised to end the battle with body hair for forever. IPL: Intense Pulsed Light Therapy. After having wasted hundreds of euros, lots of time and suffering (I once even suffered some burn symptoms- don\u2019t believe what they say- IPL ain\u2019t for pussies, pun intended) without any result, I decided to give up.<\/p>\n<p>I had just read \u201cHow to be a Woman\u201d by contemporary feminist Caitlin Moran in which she describes the joy of having a bush and how today\u2019s fashion, porn and beauty industry is making you feel bad about having pubic hair, basically in order to make money.<\/p>\n<p>After the big IPL fail, I had had enough of it, and Caitlin was on my side. But after two happily hairy years, I started dreading the upcoming summer holidays and my bikini line. Last year was a bit of a disaster with last minute shaves and stubs, so this time, I decided I was going to do it differently. I first tried buying a boy-short style bikini bottoms. I found a rather cute one that looked sexy but, damn it, even in this big hotpants-style bikini, the hairs were peeping out between from my legs. So, a day before leaving for my holidays, in a \u201csomething\u2019s gotta give\u201d mood, I ran into a professional wax salon.<\/p>\n<h2>So, the bikini wax&#8230;<\/h2>\n<p>It hurts, but not as bad as you might expect and it has instant effect with a big wow factor: soft &amp; silky is what you\u2019ll get if done correctly. It\u2019s not for free either, but it lasts long and I personally only do it during the bikini season. Of course it is pretty embarrassing to spread your legs for a complete stranger who is going to get very intimate with you within 2 minutes after meeting. But that&#8217;s the easiest part, I like to think of it \u00a0as a visit to the gynecologist, they see vaginas upclose every day and are probably not impressed by any form or colour you might have between your legs. At least, that was the case with the girl who helped me. She just seemed endlessly bored. So, after extensive research on the matter, I came up with some tips on to how to make your bikini wax a success. Tested &amp; approved by me, personally.<\/p>\n<h2>How to survive a Bikini wax:<\/h2>\n<h4>Prepare:<\/h4>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Firstly:<\/strong> not only because it\u2019s not nice for the person who performs the bikini wax, but also because it&#8217;s more hurtful during those days: <strong>don\u2019t go during your menstruation.<\/strong> The week right after is kinda perfect.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Give the area on your body you want to have waxed a light scrub a couple of times during the week before you go to the salon.<\/strong> <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/en\/bath-and-body\/body-scrub\/eco-tan-sonya-extreme-exfoliate-glove.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">A good exfoliating glove<\/a> or <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/en\/bath-and-body\/body-scrub\/eco-by-sonya-pink-himalayan-salt-scrub.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">a good scrub-paste<\/a> will help you with that. This will remove dead skin cells and free ingrown hairs: it\u2019ll make the wax-job more efficient. Don\u2019t use any skin oils or lotions the day of your wax!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Cut the hair you want to get rid of,<\/strong> best using a trimmer if you have one, to approximately 0.3 to max. 0.5 cm. No worries, if you have no time for this, normally the saloon employee will be totally fine with doing that for you with a pair of scissors. If you plan ahead, you can also just shave it off and let it grow to the right length.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Do a little research about what salon you want to go to:<\/strong> it should be clean and live up to a certain hygienic standard, which is mostly visible at a first glance: does it look old &amp; sticky: it probably is. Ask more experienced friends for recommendations!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Wax type is something else that could make a difference,<\/strong> is the sort of wax the salon uses: hard wax is less painful than liquid, just because it sticks less to the skin than liquid (warm) wax. Liquid wax is quicker to use when it concerns bigger and relatively less sensitive areas such as the legs, arms and back, whereas hard wax is more suitable for face, bikini and underarm hair.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Think about what you want:<\/strong> completely bare, \u00a0a landing strip or something else and talk about it with the person who is helping you, <em>before<\/em> you get started!<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<h2>How to suffer as little as possible:<\/h2>\n<p>You are all scrubbed &amp; groomed and you found a good salon? It\u2019s time to go for it! Don\u2019t be afraid, it goes really fast\u2014if it\u2019s only a bikini wax, you\u2019ll be out and about in max. 20 minutes. <strong>I repeat: do not \u00a0feel embarrassed, these are professionals who\u2019ve seen it all.<\/strong><\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>Make sure you are fresh down there,<\/strong> so you don\u2019t need to feel self conscious about how you smell. I like to go in the morning, not too long after I\u2019ve had my shower.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Avoid eating sugary foods or drinking coffee right before you go:<\/strong> sugar and caffeine tend to make you more jumpy and sensitive.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Make sure you aren\u2019t hungry, but don\u2019t overeat either,<\/strong> a cheeseburger in your belly won\u2019t make it better, believe me.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Going to have a wax when you are super stressed or emotional about something is bad timing.<\/strong> Tension and adrenaline supersize the experience of pain. Try to be as relaxed as possible.<\/li>\n<li><strong>To stay calm, don\u2019t forget to breath during the session!<\/strong> Try not to clench your teeth while the wax strips are being ripped off, think happy thoughts \ud83d\ude42<\/li>\n<li>Some people like to distract from the \u2018ripping\u2019 moment by turning their head and coughing to distract from the pain. <strong>Another way is to actively keep your mouth moist during the process, it distracts and even helps against experiencing pain. I like to chew some gum.<\/strong> Make sure though, that you don\u2019t suffocate on anything you may have in your mouth!<\/li>\n<li><strong>Of course, just normal paracetamol or ibuprofen works,<\/strong> so if you are very sensitive, just pop one of those friends about half an hour before you have your appointment.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Wow, your pubic area is feeling so soft and smooth, let\u2019s keep it that way!<\/p>\n<h2>What you can do against ingrowth &amp; infections:<\/h2>\n<ul>\n<li><strong>I think there is hardly anything better than applying a little <a class=\"\" href=\"https:\/\/amazingy.com\/en\/organic-skincare\/toning-balancing\/dr.-alkaitis-organic-soothing-gel.html\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer\">Dr. Alkaitis Soothing Gel<\/a>:<\/strong> it cools, soothes and has antibacterial properties, and is nice to sensitive skin. Basically, everything you want after a wax.<\/li>\n<li><strong>Avoid tight underwear, sunbathing, swimming in the sea or chlorinated pools and products containing alpha or beta hydroxy acids <em>for the first 48 hrs after your wax<\/em>:<\/strong> this might cause rashes, irritation or even infections. Oh, and avoid sex for the same reasons too\u2014bummer!<\/li>\n<li><strong>A day or three after your wax, when your skin isn\u2019t too sensitive anymore, you should re-start\u2014gently\u2014scrubbing again, preferably daily.<\/strong> This will keep skin from growing over your hair follicles and that&#8217;s a good thing because once the hairs start growing again, you don&#8217;t want them to get stuck under the skin causing little inflammations. This is especially important for those who wax regularly: the more often you wax, the thinner the hair will get and the higher the chance of hair ingrown gets\u2026<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>That\u2019s it! <\/strong><\/p>\n<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><strong>Let me know if this helped, and, if you have any tips regarding bikini waxes, please share below\u2014your fellow bikini-waxers will be thankful!<\/strong><\/p>\n<h5><em>Enjoyed reading this article?\u00a0<\/em><a href=\"https:\/\/amazingy.us2.list-manage.com\/subscribe?u=1cdc543214f1d8c790361fe8c&amp;id=fbb10ec120\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\" data-wplink-edit=\"true\"><em>Sign up here<\/em><\/a><em>\u00a0for our newsletter and get updates, sustainable health &amp; beauty tips, and special offers from our shop \u2013 dropped right into your inbox!<\/em><\/h5>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Female body hair has always been and will probably always be a topic of heated discussion. 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